I'm super close with my brother and sister, as they both live in different countries to me!!!!! :(
So it's important we keep in touch. All of us speak/email everyday, and with my sister, the phone calls last for a long time... my husband doesn't get jealous, but he gets sad that he doesn't have such a relationship with his siblings.. he is closer to my siblings than to his own! :)
I don't know about the rest, but my ex was jealous, more than necessary. The husband of his sister was jealous too. But most of the men aren't more or less jealous than women could be, I think. I've had very jealous female friends!
When I compare them, I think males and females can be equally jealous.
If possible, try to avoid jealous people, they aren't fun to be around.
They kind of get jealous...sometimes. If you're on the phone and sharing things he wants to hear with your sister or best friend. Yes, they get jealous of your affections or confidence being given to anyone but them.
Do men get jealous of close female relationships that a wife/fianace has?
Example when sisters talks for hours on the phone or if you have a very close friend that you confide in even with marital issues.
Why does that irritate men?
Not jealous but definitely irritating at times.
Most "decent" men will not discuss their marital issues with anyone else. For them it is irritating to see their mates narrating their biased version of intimate issues with their friends and families.
I am only going to guard one girl in this life time, u know.. meen bhi kisi a bacha hoon :(
mery jhan bhi qeemti hy :(
They kind of get jealous...sometimes. If you're on the phone and sharing things he wants to hear with your sister or best friend. Yes, they get jealous of your affections or confidence being given to anyone but them.
Best way to avoid is don't talk in front of them. Just tell your sister and friend that When he is around I don't feel comfortable to talk so talk to you later.
Whenever he is there just tell he is in home. Problem solved.
There we go again. Men under the microscope! Men, like other humanoids, come in different shapes, sizes and colors - and their thinking varies widely.
Having said that, I believe female bondings of wife/fiance, unless utterly annoying and nosey, shouldn't be an issue. The problems start when "she said" and "she advised" starts coming into the very personal matters. This is when that other 'she' has to go (or at least contained).
^ Insaan ban jao! Men are inquisitive creatures.. when they see that u're giving more time and attention to someone else YES they do get jealous and want to know what u were talking to them about ;)