you are misunderstanding again.
you clearly display no respect for your dad, as obvious from your berating him on your blog every now and then.
so why are you pooping your shalwar when someone else joins in?
but now that you mention.. you hate men, and you haven't even been in a relationship. naturally, first suspects are the men in your life.
Her saying things about her father is no one's business.
Try watching your language while talking to women.