Oh leave these Desi Aunties here , they are just jealous of you.
As Code Red rightly said nothing anything like *pehla naasha and pehla khumaar *are sweetest things , go man get it.You live in that place where motai sheikh consider it a disgrace if they have less than 4 wives and you have made your second marriage as ‘dilemma’ ! 
Waisai for honey moon , Atlantis on *Palm Jumeirah in Dubai *will be the best place , hehe… Shamo aa rahee hai 
and remeber have Lathai kee shalwar and Boski kameez with Saleem Shahi Juti on your Barat 
Just a beautiful love song for you and her . Sing this to her, mail her or have it on cell with her. Wishing u a happy life