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^ exactly, that's why I'd like to have opinion from the other side... does Mr Tashfeen think its fun :P

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I was desparately calling my husband yesterday but he wouldn't pick up and i was getting so annoyed and I wanted to smash the fone (and his fone too).

I needed the keys to get home. :(

**He did the same... calling me when he gets the signal that I'm at public place... and then wants me in the same mood... It's fun to call him right at the moment when he's in some meeting or with the boss!

Simple, if he dont want to talk... he shouldnt attend the phone... I'd never allow him to talk rubbish right at the moment!

Tell you an interesting story..
Once he came at our place few days after our Nikkah.. on his way back home... I called him after some 3 hours asking where is he? I didnt knew that my dad just called him and asked the same... I talked very politely "where are you? reached home".. Itna shore tha k awaz nhia ye mujhy.. asked again... and guess what he said "tumhara demagh kaam kion nhi karta"...
I was about to broke the phone into the wall... phir khayal aya k uske sath aor log bhi bethe hounga kia sochenga...

the least I expected, he gave the phone to his BIL... he (BIL) handled the situation very wisely by saying "beta ham abhi abhi ghar mien enter horahay haien"...

and in the night I made him say sorry... we never again have that worst time:D
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^ Wow that was mean esp' as others were around him! I hope you made him apologise down on his knees! Lol! :)

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Fbi bhai…Ur growing up too soon :naak:

and that comment u made abt her being kool even if u don’t call for a month…U dare do that ..:smilestar:

Back to the topic… well agreed some may border on paranoid hounding their husband ,wanting to knoe where he is , what he is doing , every step he takes , everyone he talks to… following him around everywhere …that just means there is a lack of trust in the relationship…

however most couples would have a set schedule and i think its basic courtesy to inform ur partner about ur whereabouts or plans so in they don’t worry if u are gone too long or if there is a change of plans…

Baaji kia karein grown hona parta hai .. unless u got some tips to grow young instead :stuck_out_tongue:

haan lol ..its only a month - 30 days 0r 31 lol .. actually i talked today haha

After Reading everyones opinions and views and commentts .. like i said i just wanted to know what ppl do or say and to be honest Sheyn baaji here has given one of the best explenation and Bonbonniere has also given a very good understandable logical answer ..

so thanx all for your particiapation in this thread .. and i see k everyone has mixed views on this … and its a 50/50 each way ..and duties to look after and care for each other fall on both parties.

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fbi and angel, what’s going on :aq:

lol …awhhh :bb: …bu honestly im telling the trutgh as much as i never wanted to get married its the most amazing thing ever !!!

once again all this is easy to say before u get married …

NO THERE NAWT !!! there first priority …okay fine he needs to work to support his family bu if u guys have a routine of when u talk then HE SHUDNT IGNORE DOSE ROUTINESS and if cant make the call ya jobi he shud make an effort to inform her before hand

are u married ???

lol its not its an amazing experiencee

oh sh** …wow i wudve never talked to him for ahwhile ..!!!

how dare heeeee well aslong as he apoligiseddd and ure happy now

yehhh :lifey:

whatever do u mean :yawn:

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^^ Thanx Angel ..Replying on my behalf .. and lol at straight_up ..dunt worry its all cool ..

and angel .. ur right ... its what i wud have said to most .. k u gotta get married to actually be talking k marraige sux .. so till u dunt .. u wont know for reall ..

Keep it up angel :)

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:blush: sorry cant help it lol

its ok … its not your fault … ur helpless ..its in ur nature :blush:

This is a beautiful article:

The woman in your life...very well expressed...

Tomorrow you may get a working woman; butyou should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER"

Send this to all girls to make their day and to all guys who can handle it.......