Re: Desi men and white women
They dont fail always. I have seen one example of my friend’s of friend. Guy fell in love with gori. they got married and after few years guy become full time Islami and his gori wife also accepted Islam with full time pardah, mashaAllah. Both are truthful and loyal to each other.
In another case, guy got married with reverted american white woman and now their marriage is at the verge of divorce.
Gori women cant adjust easily in our culture, they do have different lifestyle and I dont mean negative aspect.
your last question is subjective.