Re: Desi aphrodisiacs +
Parissenor, you are absolutely correct… best way to control or distract yourself is think about unpleasant stuff (iraq war, falling from a cliff, etc. not many people could do that when performing the ritual) 
or watch TV or something while doing it which could mean that the ritual could go on for quite sometime. 
Note: Folks, the initial post of mine only lists some of the ideas/ways that i’ve heard from various sources. It has nothing to do with my personal way of doing things. I hope some of you can dig your head out of your ass and if you really need to, we can try these on you? If not then keep putting up an act and stfu.