Dating in ramadan

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You still didnt answer my question. Where does it say dating is haram? Also for those who think dating is only about screwing around.... Please think before you start posting!

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:smack: The Quran doesnt specifically use the word DATING however common sense would tell u that it is haram since dating means…engaging in one on one intimate relationship (even if that only means emotionally) with someone of the opposite gender (hopefully), and dating may include being alone with them.

a man and a women are not allowed to be alone with each other. It is not permited in Islam…therefore being haram.

“Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Satan is the third among them” (Reported by At-Tirmidhi)..

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any thing which is forbidden in Islam and not appreciated is not allowed, is it that hard to understand ?

Ever any parents or siblings apprecited to do dating?

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For people like you who think dating is nothing but sex… all I can do is laugh… Dating is about getting to know the person with whom u will tie the knot.. Whats wrong with getting to know the person who could be ur future spouse? Whats so sinful about it?

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now please dont tell me that dating doesnt require a couple to be alone!!
whether being alone or not....dating does require some intimacy...and any intimacy between a man and woman is not allowed unless its with your spouse

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Nope.. not in the paki culture... So maybe its just against the Paksi culture.. So please dont make it a religious Issue...

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are u alone with them? then it is sinful....
why is it sinful...because ALLAH said so...

so take it up with HIM!! :)

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Then I guess the prophet commited a big big sin for getting to know his first wife before marrying her?

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I am not in a mood to argue some thick heads, so keep this Paki or unPaki things sme where else, Islam is a Universal religion and is for all Cultures,

If you have less knowledge about Islam, then try to learn it, and pay attention what Angel Eyes has said quoated!!!

Take Care ...

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Dont start GASing, its not good for health !!!
and don't try to be smart and disrespectful heare, if you non-Muslim then fine with you, but you can not mock on the religion like this!!!

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I have knowledge about Islam.. and that is what has brought me to this conclusion that most of what we do for our religion... doesnt even make sense.. And if God exists, and he gave you a brain.. I am sure he wants you to use it as well.. So please try and make sense out of belief before getting blind folded. By doing so, you are only being ungrateful to Him ... the one who has supposedly blessed you with a brain!:)

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getting to know someone for the purpose of marriage is one thing..and dating is another....there is not comparison!!

i gave u reference about being alone with someone of the opposite gender...stop trying to ignore it

if u want to get to know someone for the purpose of marriage it can be done the proper way (the shariah way)......WITHOUT being alone!!

stop making excuses for ur sins (if u date).

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If you cant answer that.. then I guess its not me but you who needs to know a lil more about Islam...
I will tell you ... dont ever date anybody... and think about this post on ur wedding night when your parents marry you to a perfect stranger who is lying right next to u... and you are scared to death ...Good Luck!

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ive already answered ur questions with a logical answer...yet u are still trying to make halal out of something that Allah has declared haram.

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First of all you are nobody tell me if I am commiting a sin or not. I guess you dont know this but people date to find the right person to spend the rest of their lives with. I dont know what kinda crowd do you hang out with cuz you obviously have been sheltered. Get out of the shell and try to think it out. On the other hand if you are commited to being stubborn and believe what u believe even if it doesnt make any sense.. then I guess I am wasting my time.

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Keep this type of brain with you, we do not need some brains like this, we are doing exactly What Islam is teaching us, we are Muslims and proud on it, and Thankful to Allah for it,

We do not have any doubt to think 'And if God exists, ' things...

so you may wanna do dating , flirting or etc, then go ahead, no one is stopping you to do so, only your 'Brain' say yes... but we are Muslims mashAllah, and for us it is not allowed! ...

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the only person that would be scared to death would be one that has not faith in Allah....

how do u know that person that u have dated doesnt turn out to be a loser....please dont tell me that doesnt happen.

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Like I said Good Luck.!

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Yes it does happen .. thats why you get to know them first before marrying them!

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..a very similar mentality is shared by Bin Laden and company!