Re: Culture and Religon
culture is that a woman cannot like and propose a man she likes.
religion says, nothing about a woman not being able to point at a man, and say i would like to marry you. of course he has to be receptive and in kind able to find mutual consent/
yet, it is a huge dichotomy that is interjected into the abyss of illusion-based- false-reality, that does nothing else, but denies women the ability to choose who they want to marry.
a change of mind, and spirits - if for ulterior motives, is another cultural underpinning that kills the honesty in any relationship ever built in this world.
anger feeds disappointment, which feeds fear, that leads to doubts and that frustrates which goes back to anger and so you have that perfect recipe for
never making the right decision, as you will never be perfectly sure of who to take on as a life partner, as a confidant and who to safely open up to.
in this regard then, a loner's life is worse off than that who has given a shoulder to someone but he/ she deprives themselves of a blessed partnership, merely to spite someone for something said, or done, in the midst of an argument.
religion clearly says do not doubt
and have faith
and the followers of the religions say they believe in it
but in their dealings they are just the opposite and doubt as well as cause lack of faith and trust in people as human beings - as life partners, as people who could other wise be a strong team of like minded and ambitious unit of a family - basis of a committed foundation of a family structure that can probably revive the generations to come.
but... time lost is never to be gained back
and after the fact, a delayed effort, for any damage control will at best be, of no use, a plain sad fact.
Do you think that sometimes people confuse a culture or traditons with religious teachings.
IF so, any examples you would like to share ?