Re: crush on co-worker - need to stop it, but how?
But he didn’t give her a napkin 
Maybe he has a crush on you too...
That's a possibility, which has crossed my mind as well. But......it's not a thought that you should be entertaining, Reshma. Even if he did like you, he can't act on it because it's unprofessional and he has a responsibility to his wife n family. You don't want to be the woman who broke another woman's home.
Also, you'd be toying with your career and reputation at work. Even if an affair were to take place, it would more than likely blow up in your face and have greater consequences for you.
***Yes, I know you said that you don't flirt with him and nor do you act on your feelings. I'm just putting out the possible consequences for you.
Re: crush on co-worker - need to stop it, but how?
he probably has old-man-butt. think about it.
just bang him and get it out of your system... plus you only live once.
though I have a feeling you two might be on the cusp of something serious. you kids have my blessing...
Re: crush on co-worker - need to stop it, but how?
and I can totally relate with you. I also have a thing for older women in authority positions...
that Fauzia Wahab is such a foxy little auntie...
^ 
Re: crush on co-worker - need to stop it, but how?
He's married so don't even think about it. Would you like it if some woman was hitting on your husband and thinking of him constantly? Just keep reminding yourself that hes married
Re: crush on co-worker - need to stop it, but how?
Oh my God....he's married, have some shame or fear the wrath of his wife that might fall upon you.
Re: crush on co-worker - need to stop it, but how?
Serve him luddo, gulab jamna, burfi.. you'll be gutted to see his roly-poly gut.