Confusion!

[firenze]

Re: Confusion!

in plain and simple language:

he is sexually attracted towards you, and wants to **** you..and that's it..

is that plain enough? ..

[Monk]

in plain and simple language:

he is sexually attracted towards you, and wants to ****** **you..and that's it..

is that plain enough? ..

Guys interpreting:
****** = Fooling around.**

Girls interpreting:
****** = marry

**I think when a guy talks in Lfie1 there should not be any staring-out.

[firenze]

Re: Confusion!

^ you go man :k:

[Monk]

Re: Confusion!

totally

[Decent_6Chora]

@jalpari90

....I am not really the typical girl who takes a glance as a stare and make a mountain out of molehill. I give a lot of allowance. But the friend thinks that is what keeping me from deciphering connotations....

thats lot of allowance. with this rate, you will bankrupt soon...

phir tumheen "qarza" laina parey ga :)

[soundarya]

Re: Confusion!

Maybe your cousin was out of sorts because you didn't give him any attention. The next time you see him, ask him if everything is ok because he looked disturbed last time. Then see how he reacts. Just because a guy seems really shareef, it doesn't mean he can't play footsie with you.

Something similar happened to me one time. I was sitting in a meeting and a non-Pakistani/non-Muslim guy was sitting next to me. He was a friend too, but we mainly saw one another at the weekly meetings. He started saving me seats next to him at the meetings. Then one day, his foot kept hitting mine. I gave him a WTH look (I thought he understood the expression on my face). Then he put his hand on my thigh... and I don't speak to him anymore.

So definitely try to find out what your cousin's intentions are. If you're not comfortable with him, give him clear signals.

[Syraa]

I reckon he was trying to be romantic…has there been anything else in his behaviour that would suggest he likes you?

On a side note, why do some guys and girls think that playing footsie is some sort of romantic gesture? It’s not romantic…it’s disturbing. It reminds me of the end of this advert

[Guac]

He's most likely interested or just fooling around............either way I don't think its cute...........I guess its one thing if its your significant other............but this is just disturbing........but then again you just said that he bumped into your feet a couple of times.....that's different from "rubbing" your feet....just keep an eye on his behavior

[Cute_Chandni_1]

Re: Confusion!

lol, hilarious!

[white_light]

Re: Confusion!

I wouldn't be ok with this behavior because it just shows that he is not respecting your physical boundaries. Playing footsie is no proper way to express your interest in someone. I think its glaringly disrespectful, and quiet disturbing. If you don't stop him he might progress....by you not saying anything about it he'll think your finding this ok ...my advice is that now that you are aware of this just let him know this is unacceptable...

[NyFella]

Talk to him and be like what was that?

[Jaanwar]

Re: Confusion!

Who does he think he is, Anil Kapoor?

[CM]

@Monk

totally

That…is…so…disturbing.

[LP]

Re: Confusion!

Monk and firenze complementing each other as usual

[Gina]

Grab him by his collar and drag him to a corner and ask him!

[jalpari90]

LOL...THATS FUNNY....well how was his mood when he was rubbing your feet

has he ever said anything or done anything of a similar nature before?

Sharing things, spending out time with me. Can that be taken as liking. This whole package is just for me.

Whatever it means, it is a very behuda way to express something.

agreed.

IF he was doing it, its a sexual gesture. Like goris you can take it as "liking" and try to turn it into some thing meaning full.

Or use pakistani approach and slap him.

Or jalpari way, dont bother.

Sexual gesture..WoW..that is offensive.

[jalpari90]

@OldBoy

hahaha…once same thing happened to me. We were at a dinner at a distant relative’s place. A very cute girl (uncle’s daughter), round about my age sitting exactly opposite to me starts rubbing my feet. I am shocked, confused…so I look at her and find out that she is giving me mischievous glances. I am stunned and happy at the same time and start to wonder what my next move should be to take this ‘relationship’ forward. All of a sudden, the touching and the rubbing reach my knee and then thigh. My heart starts racing, i could not take this anymore, looked down immediately and found out a 2 year old baby trying to get out of the table.

However, I still do not know if the naughty smiles girl gave me were real or the work of my imagination

Hahaha. how calamitous:p

@partyslims

Funny and slightly disturbing.

Really very disturbing. Ignorance is a bliss really.

@AngelEyess

lol jalpari
As hes gone now…if u will confront him…he might refuse to accept what he did…so next time he does something like this…ask him then and there k “heyy whats ur problem…or what are you doing” or be a pakistani as “actions speak louder than words” lol
But dont leave him next time

Yea i am too late to respond:bummer:

As a fact, he has been living with us.

I am sure he will own all that he did. I just want to believe, no such thing happened:(

[jalpari90]

@NaMaan

ok he might not be doing it intentionally . You need to correlate other ‘symptoms’ to reach a conclusion .

Let me say one thing , if he is doing it , it means he is just horny

I can certainly correlate. He pecked on my hair. (That is how my father does.) And i took that as a fatherly or brotherly peck. I mean, come on. He is between 30 and 35. which makes him 10-15 years elder to me. Why me:konfused: ??

@Monk

I say still slap him, just in-case.

I feel like:(

@Zapatista

It means that you should probably stay away from that cousin.

I really am doing that. Last night, he sat next to me on the dining table. And i folded my legs on the chair.Such a coward response of audacity:nahi:

[jalpari90]

in plain and simple language:

he is sexually attracted towards you, and wants to **** you..and that's it..

is that plain enough? ..

Not even in his dreams.

This one post will evoke me to slap him next time i see him.

Maybe your cousin was out of sorts because you didn't give him any attention. The next time you see him, ask him if everything is ok because he looked disturbed last time. Then see how he reacts. Just because a guy seems really shareef, it doesn't mean he can't play footsie with you.

Something similar happened to me one time. I was sitting in a meeting and a non-Pakistani/non-Muslim guy was sitting next to me. He was a friend too, but we mainly saw one another at the weekly meetings. He started saving me seats next to him at the meetings. Then one day, his foot kept hitting mine. I gave him a WTH look (I thought he understood the expression on my face). Then he put his hand on my thigh... and I don't speak to him anymore.

So definitely try to find out what your cousin's intentions are. If you're not comfortable with him, give him clear signals.

He apologized for leaving like that. I didnt bother asking since i know he doesnt camouflage things.

[jalpari90]

@Guac

He’s most likely interested or just fooling around…either way I don’t think its cute…I guess its one thing if its your significant other…but this is just disturbing…but then again you just said that he bumped into your feet a couple of times…that’s different from “rubbing” your feet…just keep an eye on his behavior

That is how i can recall. The friend says she noticed him rubbing his foot all along. I either havve to doubt friend, or him:nahi:

@white_light

I wouldn’t be ok with this behavior because it just shows that he is not respecting your physical boundaries. Playing footsie is no proper way to express your interest in someone. I think its glaringly disrespectful, and quiet disturbing. If you don’t stop him he might progress…by you not saying anything about it he’ll think your finding this ok …my advice is that now that you are aware of this just let him know this is unacceptable…

He is gonna think, i am totally nuts, something registered to me only after 24 hours:nahi: But I am gonna talk.

@Jaanwar

Who does he think he is, Anil Kapoor?

Anil Kapoor plays footsie?

@CM

That…is…so…disturbing.

Indeed. Monk is a mystery:p

@Gina

Grab him by his collar and drag him to a corner and ask him!

And then dig his grave right there:mad: I feel bad, i have lost all respect i had for him:nahi: