confused :s

Re: confused :s

see this is what confuses me.. some of my friends say continue.. some say plzz stop working and enjoy this time.. have a baby.. and u can work later on in life,

while some say continue working and take a month leave for the wedding.. what r u gonna do home alone all day?

so iam just so confused... i do enjoy working but at the cost of not enjoying these days? i paid for the gym but didnt go once.. because mashAllah my family is quite big and relatives keep visiting from pak every other month or so.. my mom says the glow is not there anymore.. losing hair.. complexion.. no losing weight..

so iam too confused on this topic!!