I have, not once but more than couple times and finally last time told him we need to end frenship and he said he wont bug for my studies sake but will always love me. Now, Im thinkin what I did .. did I do it wrong? in a sense, should i just stay his ffren but yet keep a distance?
ooo the L word. iâll stay away for now to let him calm down. there is no reason to mention the L word if you guys arenât in a solid relationship. it just doesnât make sense and shouldnât even be felt. i donât care what the rest of the world says, that is just happens, because itâs dumb that way
LOIS i don wanna be mean but ur best option is to distance urself at this time and slightly hurt him, that will make him stronger and help him move on, cuz agar abhi nahi kiya to aap pachtaaogee.
i totally agree wid Khumar on this one, lekin kya karein a lot of us i mean guys and am assuming pakistani too are kinda emotional idiots and quick to assume crushes and infatuation as LOVE but he will get over it over time :k:
itâs not just guys. girls do it too unfortunately, and confuse infatuation, or like or respect for love, and end up screwing themselves the most. hence people should probably take some kind of seminar on indentifying their emotions starting at the ripe old age of 13
It wasnt a relationship
we were really cool frens at first, then he started to develop feelings n fell in L with me. I mean I like him n respect him as a fren but there is NO freakinâ chance of anything between us. So, I told him but he really have strong feelings. sigh and I hate to hurt my fren
hmmm. I guess u guys r right. Even though right now I feel as if leaving his frenship is like a loss but in a long run it will pay off.
i know i know it isnât thatâs why iâm saying that there isnât any need to say the L word if you (that is a universal you) arenât in a relationship in the first place.
believe me, hurting him now is for the best. and heck, down the road it will be better for both of you