chocolates and soft drinks

I think your stance on it is good. There is no need to give kids chocolate/soda without them asking, and your lucky she is not interested. My son also doesnt care for chocolate or anything chocolatey either....but he does want soda if he sees us drinking, so we just try not to drink soda in front of him. Its good to offer them milk/water and some juice. definitely dont want him getting any cavities so young. If she does ever want soda and demands it, perhaps give her a little diluted with water.