Re: cheater.
one of my friend got engaged wid this guy.it was an arranged engagement.but after 3 months that guy broke the engagement by saying that he likes some other girl.
Now he is back after 6 months and says sorry,that girl was just playing with his heart.so he wants my friend back in his life.
thats why i was asking that is it ok to go wid that guy again:hoonh:
She has to try her luck. If she likes him and he seems genuine in his actions and she should go for it. With caution off course. MEaning have engagement again and wait before marying.
Re: cheater.
Personally, us women will never understand a guy who cheats over and over again.
If the guy is cheating with a different girl every time - then hop, run, jump, skip, hide! Do everything to stay away from this personality...
If the guy has "Attempted" to cheat / intended to cheat once - but he refrains from it - Then HE is the guy to KEEP! :)
If the guy has cheated already once - chances are he will try it again as long as you don't find out and ENJOY and be PROUD of his cheating behavior.
My hubby has a friend who cheats on his wife - and I hate it that my hubby is friends with him because knowing that guy cheats / spends money and gets pleasure in return and his wife does not even know - MIGHT make him feel that he can get away with murder too...
you know the saying "a leopard can't change its spots" well i believe it.
Re: cheater.
ONCE A CHEATER ...ALWAYS A CHEATER
WHY TAKE THE CHANCE?
So now he realizes her worth? Too freaking late! I would never accept such a person again… just because his little game didnt work out he comes crawling back? disgusting!
And I believe that cheaters will be cheaters no matter what. It’s just in their nature. They’re liars, manipulators, are very selfish, have commitment issues, shallow… only look at relationships for the surface value…and its very very hard to change someone like that.
Re: cheater.
^^ he is not cheater, but an opportunist! and its worst than cheater i guess. he may take any better opportunity in the future too, what if that girl become available again?
not all cheaters will stay cheater, as most of the cheaters are in relationship not for real and that thing keep them stay as cheater as they are not sincere with anyone.
i guess if even a player/cheater person becomes sincere to anyone in life for real, then will not cheat.
so key is sincerity for real.
Re: cheater.
don't forget cheaters are also pathological liars and they will lie over and over again or make any excuse to hide the truth or their real intentions. If he has come out clean right away and promised to never do it again and gave you his words, then you can try your luck and see if he is man enough to keep his promises and words.....all love bull**** means nothing if his actions speaks louder then his words. But 99% of the time cheaters are not honest people and you will have trouble having a positive trusting relationship with them.
So now he realizes her worth? Too freaking late! I would never accept such a person again... just because his little game didnt work out he comes crawling back? disgusting!
And I believe that cheaters will be cheaters no matter what. It's just in their nature. They're liars, manipulators, are very selfish, have commitment issues, shallow... only look at relationships for the surface value...and its very very hard to change someone like that.
^^ he is not cheater, but an opportunist! and its worst than cheater i guess. he may take any better opportunity in the future too, what if that girl become available again?
not all cheaters will stay cheater, as most of the cheaters are in relationship not for real and that thing keep them stay as cheater as they are not sincere with anyone.
i guess if even a player/cheater person becomes sincere to anyone in life for real, then will not cheat.
so key is sincerity for real.
don't forget cheaters are also pathological liars and they will lie over and over again or make any excuse to hide the truth or their real intentions. If he has come out clean right away and promised to never do it again and gave you his words, then you can try your luck and see if he is man enough to keep his promises and words.....all love bull**** means nothing if his actions speaks louder then his words. But 99% of the time cheaters are not honest people and you will have trouble having a positive trusting relationship with them.
couldnt agree more.
Re: cheater.
It really depends on the guy. Sometimes we do run across the people that are quoted "once a cheater, always a cheater". However, there are certain people out there that make mistakes and learn from them. It really really depends on whether the person considers their actions wrong or not.