I believe its better to do it openly then in private
The people who I speak to on chat are friends and I might joke around wid some, they know I'm joking I know I'm joking but I guess to others it may seem wrong who knows...... no way in hell would I talk to them like tht in private......
I had my pic up as my avatar recently, an a friend told me to remove it coz he said U don't know what people are capable of out there they can easily cut an paste ur pic on to any backgrounds
I guess it was a bit naive of me thinking tht its ok to put up my pic, but its not safe coz yeah there are weird and twisted people out there who are capable of some sick stuff....