I was just wondering the other day …that i’ve heard if one door of happiness is closed then another one is opened but we are so intent in looking at the closed door that we don’t notice the open door.
Well why can’t we just try to open the door that is closed?
I’ve also heard that the only consistent thing in the nature is change.
So why can’t we change the change back to what it was before it was changed?
*I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge.
*That myth is more potent than history.
*That dreams are more powerful than facts.
*That hope always triumphs over experience.
*That laughter is the only cure for grief.
*And I believe that love is stronger than death.
well, that's the problem mystery gal, we can't change the change back to before it was changed. often enough, changes are irreversible and happen for a reason. best thing to do is to not think about why it happened but try to adjust and see if you can make something better out of it.
also, it comes in handy to carry a bag full of door-stops. :)
Its not absolute that if one door shuts on you the other opens.Most of the times it doesnt, thats why we adopt the habit of dwelling on the closed ones, hoping somehow it will open.
true change is consistent......but its only limited to you.......not others around you.So its highly unlikely that any negative events in your lifetime was linked only to your actions and mental set.....totally uninfluenced by anyone else.......therefore it is highly unlikely to see them reverse.
When a door closes on u or u loose something u feel like u got nothing good left in ur life. But if u really look around there is so many good things given to u by God.
Life can be very wonderful if u really think about all the great things u have. Ofcourse u always want more. There is nothing wrong with wanting more. So what u do is keep trying. And pray to God and wait for him to fulfill all ur wishes.:)
u know,there is no use of looking at the closed door n waiting for it to be opened again for us......usually the closed doors wont reopen and we get nothing out of those high hopes of seeing it open again except sadness.......so its better to forget about it and look forward for the new ways,even if it is difficult to do so.
and yes......change is the only consistent thing....everything changes with time,even people and their feelings and their emotions in certain cases....so if someones is changing,i guess we should leave him/her for good 'cause this is NATURE.....!