Re: Can you really lose a relationship on a text message?
As sara said, these days marriages break up because of text messages or facebook and this is just a relationship.
Plus I have always stated using intrapersonal communication the other person does not know the intention of the first person sending the message. How will the girl know the guy was joking? Did the guy send a video msg on her phone saying it in a FUNNY and jokingly manner? Did she see that he was not serious? Girls are very sensitive and if she saw that the guy sent the text message she thought it was really over. Guys should not be this insensitive, relationships are of very sensitive nature. It does not take much to build one but a very little thing can easily break it apart.
As sara said, these days marriages break up because of text messages or facebook and this is just a relationship.
Plus I have always stated using intrapersonal communication the other person does not know the intention of the first person sending the message. How will the girl know the guy was joking? Did the guy send a video msg on her phone saying it in a FUNNY and jokingly manner? Did she see that he was not serious? Girls are very sensitive and if she saw that the guy sent the text message she thought it was really over. Guys should not be this insensitive, relationships are of very sensitive nature. It does not take much to build one but a very little thing can easily break it apart.
Aren't we all joking to ourselves? Oh the prescient irony
The girl has every right to call it off. Your friend pretty much got what he deserved for his unacceptable actions. I think he needs to mature before he gets into another relationship.
Come on yaar she knows hes a comedian and without thinking about it she just throws it off. I think she's looking for a scapegoat.
Re: Can you really lose a relationship on a text message?
Even if he was Rusell Peters himself, it wouldn't make it ok. That is just not something you "joke" about. Anyway, hopefully he learned his lesson from this. If she really wanted to be with him, she would have stayed with him regardless. They are both better off.
Re: Can you really lose a relationship on a text message?
Only cowards would do such things.. either they know they are guilty and can't face the reality or look into the other person's eyes.. they are blessed to have Email/ text thingy in their lives so they can make a mockery out of a relationship .. but honestly speaking, it's better to get rid of them sooner than later.. such people are useless to begin with.. shrugs
Only cowards would do such things.. either they know they are guilty and can't face the reality or look into the other person's eyes.. they are blessed to have Email/ text thingy in their lives so they can make a mockery out of a relationship .. but honestly speaking, it's better to get rid of them sooner than later.. such people are useless to begin with.. shrugs
Yeah the thought makes me cringe too. Shakes torso
i think the guy wanted to create a drama n see how she’s gonna react may b he acpected sumething like"nahi plz aisa mat kero verna mai mer jayoon gee he found out his importance lol
Either she wont take him back because she really is fed up with his nonsensical jokes.
Or she was looking for a reason to end it and now she has one.
Nothing less then a diamond ring will work for this one...minimum 1/5 carats if he is a struggling standup comedian or something and doesnt have much.
really PS? r we ladies so much into diamonds that anyone say anything n then show a diamond n thats it?? he's forgiven?? wow. gud for guys with money. Mcpendo my be ur friend's gf is joking too. go find out
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Its a joke...Im hoping you're not taking this as seriously as it seems.
Final verdict:
The guy is still growing up and shouldnt be in a relationship at all.
Losing a relationship with SMS?
& a guy that sends a break up message as a joke?
Sorry mate but that seems bang out of order.
How 'bout the guy actually talks to his girl to see what's up? There should actually be some real life communication for a relationship to work out, get me? I mean, cyber-fights are so passé; they're so not cool.
On another note, how about some empathy? In a hypothetical, the girl is probably gonna be a bit hurt and bewildered; what kind of boyfriend lets you down via text? It's natural to be a bit *****y, I don't blame her. But when it all boils down, face-to-face talking is the best way to sort out a mess like this one.
Let us know how it goes, eh?
EDIT: this bleeps out your swear words. That's so weird...
Re: Can you really lose a relationship on a text message?
er call me shallow ....
but how much is a text message these days .... 5p , 10p, or maybe youre reallly lucky and have one of those fancy bundles where you get them for free......
so moving onto whatever the question was ..... losing a relationship over a text message..... sort of gives you an idea of the value of the whole thing anyway.... at least in the mind of the person sending the text , even if not in the mind of the one recieving it.....
coulnt be bothered to read the thread so abuse me if i got it all wrong.... i dont care
but how much is a text message these days .... 5p , 10p, or maybe youre reallly lucky and have one of those fancy bundles where you get them for free......
so moving onto whatever the question was ..... losing a relationship over a text message..... sort of gives you an idea of the value of the whole thing anyway.... at least in the mind of the person sending the text , even if not in the mind of the one recieving it.....
coulnt be bothered to read the thread so abuse me if i got it all wrong.... i dont care
Ah well, he's in talks with the girl trying to sort it out but he's telling me he'll get her back. It was a huge mistake and he's saying he'll never have a girlfriend after this one and only marriage! Girlfriends are too much drama.
Re: Can you really lose a relationship on a text message?
Once i got in trouble for saying i wud only leave u for (some indian actress) Offcourse i was jokin....... i couldnt beleive she made it a big issue and we broke up, i was very upset for months and it was really hard for me to get over her. Now am happy that we broke up :)
Once i got in trouble for saying i wud only leave u for (some indian actress) Offcourse i was jokin....... i couldnt beleive she made it a big issue and we broke up, i was very upset for months and it was really hard for me to get over her. Now am happy that we broke up :)
ahahahah man girls just cling on to something, they just need to make a huge drama out of everything. Always conditions never unprecedented love, never unbounded appreciation never the true loyalty always TALL this shiny that SILK this BIG house that NEW CAR THIS new shoes that. Like the prophet (SAW) said there is nothing good in this world except for a pious women. I can say prophet those days are long gone.
he found out his importance lol
while u were drooling we ran so really were in front 