Re: Can a guy and girl JUST be friends??
It can be done but you have to be careful about the messages you send to each other.
princess
Are you an alien? aap mars sey tu nahiN aieeN? Oh or may be you are an FOB.
Ofcourse they can be friends.
See any couple who are not married are "just friends". I come across scores of them everyday. Just yesterday a colleague introduce me to his son, i asked where is your wife, he said, you mean his mother?, i said, yes, he answers, well we are not married we are** just friends.**
Wow. I love how you just bought in the word "FOB" just because someone else's opinion doesn't match up to yours.
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NEVER
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NAY 
Re: Can a guy and girl JUST be friends??
My observation is that if you socialize with opposite sex as a "group", more chances are that it will remain friendship but If you start spending too much time one-on-one, more chances are that it will go to the other path....... Islam has not asked to avoid it unnecessarily for nothing !
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My observation is that if you socialize with opposite sex as a "group", more chances are that it will remain friendship but If you start spending too much time one-on-one/QUOTE]
Agree!!! Further to my opening post, while I am just friends with girls for many years, I avoid one-on-one time with girls to the extent of often refusing to meet without another person present.
[quote="Decent_6Chora, post:10, topic:188473"]
My observation is that if you socialize with opposite sex as a "group", more chances are that it will remain friendship but If you start spending too much time one-on-one/QUOTE]
Agree!!! Further to my opening post, while I am just friends with girls for many years, I avoid one-on-one time with girls to the extent of often refusing to meet without another person present.
sounds like it's not possible after all.
My opinion:
-friend in a group, is not that close.
-Mostly when there is only friendship n nothing more, the boy n girl r not very good friends.
-If they are good friends, childhoodbuddies.
-New good friends appear to have feelings, one of them or both. What ive seen is that when 2 people are great friends now, in the past there has been one of them who liked the other one.
Then again most of the time, not all.
Re: Can a guy and girl JUST be friends??
I think they can be friends. I've had a male best friend for ages, and now it's like, we're both the same age, but we're more brother/sister than anything else.
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Ive got friends that are male but I dont really hang out with them...thats what my girlfriends are for! We talk on the phone sometimes and I see them around at parties or whatnot. Its upto you...you have to be the one establish the friendship but also the distance.
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^male acquaintancei guess. Friend to me is someone much more closer, so to answer the question of thread No. I do not think men and women generally can be friendly without getting either flirty or emotionally attached. Exceptions merely reinforce the rules.
^male acquaintancei guess.
what i was saying.
Yes yes they can b close friends unless they reallly hate each other!. :aq:
Even if they are frnds…there are always sum chances…even if they keep their distances!.
During my academic years i had a co-grp!..n ofcourse everyone kept physical n emotional distances…but here m confuse..as my male grp mates had helped me aloot during my times of needs…hmmm so can i call them my frnds?.
princess
Are you an alien? aap mars sey tu nahiN aieeN? Oh or may be you are an FOB.
Ofcourse they can be friends.
See any couple who are not married are "just friends". I come across scores of them everyday. Just yesterday a colleague introduce me to his son, i asked where is your wife, he said, you mean his mother?, i said, yes, he answers, well we are not married we are** just friends.**
*Kindly refrain from making generalizations about me when you are unaware of me or or my personal life. Your lack of understanding into the situation (yet your ability to make such comments) only highlights your failure to fully comprehend the question being asked. It has nothing to do with being an "alien" or a "FOB" (none of which I am). *
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as per wat i c, yes ppl can just b friends but saying key feelings never come in to play at some point or the other is wrong, now that has nothing to do with being a FOB or an alien as so called westerners bhi iss baat sey agree kartey hain, dosti agar ek had tak ho to ofcourse friends ho saktay hain, lekin jab aap kisi key itney close aa jaayein key roz baat ho rahee hai and every lil thing is shared then kuch na kuch to panga hota hai zaroor aap maanein ya naa maanein, ab yeh baat alag hai key jis ko feelings ho woh express naa karey and the other person is oblivious to the fact and probably interested elsewhere,
u know TUM BIN ka ek dialogue hai "YEH FEELINGS BHI KITNEE STUPID HOTEE HAIN , LOGIC HEE NAHI SAMAJHTEEN " kuch aisa hee hisaab hai.
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possible yes
have i seen it happen? not yet
thus the answer is NO 
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of course they can be friends...i have plenty of male friends at work been friends wiv them for years he has female friends he worked wiv....so its kl......
There should be no physicial attraction or emotional instability in both parties, then yes, they can be "just" friends.
There should also not be any PMS!!!:D