Re: Bridezillas
i think bridezillas is a very negative term and i don't think most brides automatically become bridezillas because they care about the little and big details that go into making up their wedding day.
i think bridezillas are those brides who are downright rude and mean and impolite and treat people like **** and use their status as a bride and their desire for having the "perfect day" as an excuse for doing so. no one wants a ****ty wedding day.
theres no excuse for being a biotch. and if wedding planning brings that side of their personality out in someone, well then they've got bigger problems to deal with- like anger and stress management. and maturity.
i'm not saying its easy planning a wedding and i'm not saying brides don't have their off moments at times, i know i'd have plenty along the way, just like everyone else brides are also human. but i firmly believe if you are upset, you get upset in front of your fiance or your family or your friends cos you know they love you and will understand your stress, and will help you deal with it, and then you get over it. you don't consistently act like a selfish, foul-mouthed, insensitive, rude, mean biotch- thats inexcusable. and you definitely don't do that while a camera is recording your every single move!!! i'd love to see interviews with these brides after they view their tapes and see if they realise just how unreasonable and demanding and entirely unpleasant they were.