I sort of agree but its not a nice way of saying it. For some reason Indians go over the top! I have no clue why but their clothes are always intricate to the point it makes the eye sore. I saw a picture of this Indian bride whose top had lots of beads on it, I mean alot, then her dupatta had even more and her lengha more. It was sooo busy. For my wedding,my top was a matching color to my dupatta and gharara but Mytop had kaam only on the border and the dupatta had light sprays and kaam on the border and my gharara was the heaviest thing. I wore a big necklace but modest size earings. Thats the way it should be done. I would post pics to show how heavy a bridal outfit should be v.s. a heavy intricate over the top Indian bridal outfit but I am at work so cannot do that now..maybe later