I do. so when she is away on a girls night out, I am at home with the kids, when I am out, she hangs with them, and when both of us want to go, we drop them at a friends place, or have someone come over, but thats not very frequent.
Only exception being the gym which we have not used yet, they have free baby sitting upto 2 hrs a day. she was too worried about some bugs goign around so we have not used it so far but I have just convinced her that its time, that way we can get a break, workout, kids have fun. probably do that weekends and a night or two during the week
usually during the week they go to preschool 8-12 and then a day care 12-3. On her trip she is only going Friday- Monday, so instead of her pickign the kids from daycare I will pick them up, will have daddy time with them over the weekend and Monday I get them ready and pick them up, da wooman comes back that Monday anyways.
