Hamaray Dil & Dimagh jiss Muhallay maiN rehtay haiN wahaaN na hi Sunnar hay and na hi Lohaar
As per Attending Ratio tou Yups.. U r Right, its Frightening for me sometimes. Majority of the Time as I dont listen to mind, I am facing LOSSES. But still, I am satisfied for the reason that I listend to HEART … tou Kia hua agar Kaam ulTa ho gaya
Coz . Agar I listen to MIND and Phir bhi kaam ulTa ho jaye tou… Its Double Tenssion…
Aik.. Dil ki Call Na Attend karnay ki… Dooosra Kaam ulTa honay ki…
And. Yes.. I am Demanding
1% Call ki Example naheeN de sakta Coz… DIL kehta hay ke.. Na dooN
If it’s too late then you’re screwed. You HAVE to catch the problem early on while your brain can still dominate your actions.
You must always be a realist, never a romanticist. The moment you think you might start liking someone you must immediately stop and execute a feasibility analysis. If the probability of things not being able to work out is anything other than low, you must cut all contact with the person until things have cooled down.
When ppl fall in love i don’t think they think of feasibility…they think about the “other person” more than anything. And ya when ur too late ur screwed…no turning back and no forgetting abt the person for life time…
Bingo. Yet falling in love is not something that happens suddenly. It takes a few hours to days.
Basically, the moment you feel anything other than friendship for a person, you have to stop and carry out the feasbility. If logically, there is unlikely to be a successful future, then you must immediately minimize contact with the person, if not cut them out of your life completely.
The problem is the romantic people bumbling around wanting to fall in love, rather than wanting a successful future.
^ I understand where ur coming from. My brain knows realism but the heart doesn't know what realism is. Thats why I try to keep the heart out of such situations.
i didnt read the whole thread so i dont know wat others feel about it.. but for me.. heart is nothing.. heart shows u the wrong path (well at least for me) so i always use brain
^ kaun please please dont use heart otherwise u will regret like hell … use ur brain and u will be successfull for ever..
there is no situation in which u need to use ur heart..