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Err. I didnt say anything like that. Infact i had nothing of this sort to comply when i posted about it in the first place.
However,assume what you want.
Perhaps but the lack of clarity didn't do you any favours.
In any case, I will assume what I want.
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No, I am not. However you are free to assume and twist it the way you like.
There was not need to mention her being victim of sexual abuse.
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That does not mean that she confessed to your or to them that she married the other guy for his money. Right ? Even if that is true that she is gold digger you are better off by not marrying her. She could leave you for a richer guy even after you were married that would have been more devastating.
She didnt do it to me directly, so yeah you are right in that.
and yes, you are correct also, she could have left me after marriage also.
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There was not need to mention her being victim of sexual abuse.
yes, there was as i wanted to share my experience.
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Because this is not for the first time I'm hearing this, sure we all need to make ourselves feel better somehow.
you may find yourself ways like this to feel better, i dont.
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somehow i have an explanation of the number of shops/brands for women in malls after reading this:
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did she ever pressure u to get a good job? or asked for somethign really expensive? or anything that qualifies her a gold digger. if not the i dont think its wise to trust others word.
wow.you are spot on. she did both of the above things and kept reminding me of what expensive stuff her friends get from their fiancee's.
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somehow i have an explanation of the number of shops/brands for women in malls after reading this:
and who bloody own those brand names? don't come up with half cooked theories.
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wow.you are spot on. she did both of the above things and kept reminding me of what expensive stuff her friends get from their fiancee's.
Why are you holding someone responsible for wanting a comfortable lifestyle? Its a free world buddy.
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clarity again: we were engaged for sometime and knew eachother for sometime before breakup. In that “sometime” she mentioned this to me.
yups its a free world but i have a strong feeling about this since i knew her personally also.
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yes, there was as i wanted to share my experience.
but this thread is not about sharing your experiences.
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wow.you are spot on. she did both of the above things and kept reminding me of what expensive stuff her friends get from their fiancee's.
hmmm...in one of the earlier posts, you mentioned that u have help several friend to coop with child sexual abuse...did u ever try to find out what made her gold digger? i mean what incidence made her think that money is everything, money can buy u everything?
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lol i will tell you the fully cooked story of fashion-labels and store-brands, but some other day
plz take a min or 2 and think before posting, how has this person come up with whatever he has come up with, it will give you alot of insight and help in responding
and who bloody own those brand names? don't come up with half cooked theories.
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hmmm...in the earlier post you mentioned that u have help several friend to coop with child sexual abuse...did u ever try to find out what made her gold digger? i mean what incidence made her think that money is everything, money can buy u everything?
Basically , such people find distractions as they are running away from reality.
Distractions come in forms of hobbies or exhaustive expensive hobbies, shoppings, sporting vacations like ice-skiing, trips etc. something that keeps them occpied enough that even when its sleep time (sleep time is the most dreaded time as it brings alot of thoughts), they are exhausted enough physically and mentally that they hit the bed and doze off.
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but this thread is not about sharing your experiences.
I find it worth sharing because most guys dont go for used girls and i did.
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so sherlock holmes i think your questions solved the mystery (Y)
QUOTE=zobia;8381634]hmmm...in one of the earlier posts, you mentioned that u have help several friend to coop with child sexual abuse...did u ever try to find out what made her gold digger? i mean what incidence made her think that money is everything, money can buy u everything?
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yups its a free world but i have a strong feeling about this since i knew her personally also.
So what? She decided to go with a better lifestyle. Whether you knew her personally or not doesn't matter. We are all free to make and change our choices depending on circumstance. You were not married and therefore no commitment! Simples!
Its simple bru, you just need to make some bank. You can't blame her because you couldn't match that lifestyle. Similarly, you can find a girl that fits your set of requirements or whatever and you'd be free to do so.
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lol i will tell you the fully cooked story of fashion-labels and store-brands, but some other day
plz take a min or 2 and think before posting, how has this person come up with whatever he has come up with, it will give you alot of insight and help in responding
talking about you ex's past [for no apparent reason] is not a noble thing, that's all i know. now run away.
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I find it worth sharing because most guys dont go for used girls and i did.
You're using this term for a sexually abused girl. How sick is that? You're making me sick to the core.