born in the wrong century..

[MYwish]

Re: born in the wrong century..

^Yes I agree.

[black_beauty]

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@Barfee

I think:

1. Collar bones, neck bones and rib cages popping out are scary.
2. its better to live with in-laws
3. stay at home moms are better than working moms
4. A guy doesnt have to know how to cook
5. tight clothing looks nasty
6. revealing clothes are nasty too and especially revealing shalwar kameez :yukh:
7. Hijab is a fardh not optional (although our definition of hijab might be different)

Sometimes I feel like I should have been born few hundred years ago :o

you think wise in your own way thumb up

And I agree with ShweetDreamz about labeling and categorizin’ human being around us just for our own satisfaction. There will be people around who willl agree and think just like Barfee and some will be opponent. On the other hand some might think realistically and practically and then sort things out, for them there will be no pure black and white.

1. I agree but then too much fat also seems nasty. Need middle ground

2. Its better to live with inlaws - always? is there a gaunrantee if you are goin’ to follow such and such formula you will end livin’ happily with inlaws?

3. stay at home moms are better than working moms - depends at what time and situation

4. A guy doesn’t need to know how to cook - what if wife get sick horribly, who will be cookin’ at home?

5/6/7/ No Objection

[parissenoor]

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@black beauty

you think wise in your own way thumb up

And I agree with ShweetDreamz about labeling and categorizin’ human being around us just for our own satisfaction. There will be people around who willl agree and think just like Barfee and some will be opponent. On the other hand some might think realistically and practically and then sort things out, for them there will be no pure black and white.

you try to start a war, where there is no need for:grumpy:

people who share barfee views and those who do not are NOT opponents but complementary:)
if everyone had same views this world would be really boring you know..and labels are nothing an adjective like “modern” is not a label…it is used to underline an aspect of something/someone, but it’s not a full description of someone/ something. and if you take for this it means you have a short sighted brain

[shweetdreamz]

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ok noor whatever. anyways if i offended u im sorry. ill go delete all my comments made to you except the one where i was talking to barfee. happy?

[rimsh_1]

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@parissenoor

don’t wish so, when you’ll be older you’ll regret those wrinkles and tiredness and white hair and mom telling you it’s time to marry

you tell her girl!

[musk]

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i just want to point out one thing actually two things.

1st thing most chefs in this world are men

second thing have you ever lived with an in law...only if you have than you can say its better or worse...prior to that you are just shooting your mouth for no good reason.

[Femme_Fatale]

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True one cannot generalise on something like living with in-laws cos in-laws can vary tremendously from family to family.

[Sehar]

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Dude, collar bones are fineeeee! Now if you can count ribs on someone w/o touching them, that's slightly disturbing.

[parissenoor]

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@Femme Fatale

True one cannot generalise on something like living with in-laws cos in-laws can vary tremendously from family to family.

people can not generalise on anything? WHY?
because generalisations are simplifications of a complex world?
all science , laws, statistics,medecine, are based on generalisations

if you deny the point of generalisation :simplification designed to make a complex thing/situation understable to the greatest number, then you destroy the basis to all scientific reasearch, and law making :anarchy!
to summarise:generalisations are the grounds of human thinking, BUT simple minds lack the depth to understands limitations of those simplifications. As they can not reconstruct y themselves the complex thinking which lead to generalisations they miss all the details implied under these simplifications

just as if they could not imagine a black and white movie was made out of a colorfull reality! would you throw TV if only black and white was available? NO, but keep on doing reasearch to refine the generalistaion to the most complex possible....

BUT too much refining would anihilate the prupose of the intial generalistaion process, and the final situation would be overly complex AGAIN!

hope you get it, my english is not perfect:(

[Femme_Fatale]

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hope you feel better

[musk]

Re: born in the wrong century..

hmm your english is not perfect...you sure could have fooled me...uff such a long reply to such a small and insignificant comment.

[parissenoor]

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^^ FF…

silence is a blessing cause some people think it is holy and a proof of modesty

BUT silence is the pardha for lack of knowledge and lack of understanding

where do you stand FF?

[musk]

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lol sahar you are so right...i hope i never have to see anything like that in my life :( .

[Mehnaz]

Re: born in the wrong century..

I removed the “.” and off topic posts. Stay on topic please.

[mulz]

Re: born in the wrong century..

:p This is a retarded forum.. bunch of maulana zananis discussing 21 steps to migrate to 7th century without the time machine.. curb the freedom of expression, speech, put pardha everywhere- this is wat Talibans stood for and put everyone under veil.. My advice to you ladies is that go settle somewhere in Afghanistan - your promised land They have nothing in that country except lot of pardha, rocks, sands, gunshots from time to time and the lifestyle you all want!

[musk]

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mulz well said...god these ladies shouldnt have been born period... wrong century ka sawal hi nahi aiga phir :CareBear: .

[bbbb]

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I understand your idea Barfee...but not necessarily agree completely. You dont need to be born into that century to withold the ideals, if you believe in em' then go for it.

as for mulz, you always like to push the envelope to absurd levels. :)

[hiccup]

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Is someone PMSing? (no barfee, not you, although I disagree with alot of what you've said :p )

[mulz]

Re: born in the wrong century..

bbbb stands for Behan of Benazir Bhutto Bibi- another zanani maulana.. an import from Irania da mohalla near gilanipura.. reminds me of an Iranian girl who studied with me in college.. As a team from our college we went to Las Vegas- she was saying NO to everything- parties, clubs, drinking citing conservative shia values- she was one small ayatullah.. late at night we went to a club.. there she had 5-6 shots of tequila and threw her clothes to join gora hunks in dancing :D

[Mehnaz]

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mulz, can you stay on topic please???

Barfee, I don’t agree with everything you said either.

There’s nothing wrong with collar bones. My own collar bones stick out and i’m far from thin.

Your number 2 and 3 depends on the situation. For me, nothing is ever set in stone and there are no set rules. You need to look at the circumstances of each scenario before blinding saying, “I agree”.

Number 4 … Barfee, a lot of guys actually enjoy cooking. Why deny them the right to learn how to cook when they like it? A lot of guys don’t live at home
their entire lives, so cooking is something they learn out of necessity … the same way some of us girls learn how to cook out of a necessity too. :halo: