I think that using the P word is like using the N word ...no one likes the word said out aloud but we all use it in the discreet company of our desi friends (I use it all the time but hubby finds it offensive!) However, we would never use this in public in front of non desis nor would we like this said to us and as the internet is an open forum, it is better to encourage respect for our people by non desis who read GS.
Just my humble opinion my friend!
you know thinking about it your right..... i use it, my wife uses it ... buit we wouldnt want our kids to.... we never use it round them.....
so i stand corrected