Boot Culture/ TC Culture / Buttering Up Culture whatever you call it but I found it widely prevalent in Pakistani culture. I had a chance to work both in Pakistan and and America and difference is so obvious. Desis do try to use their 'charms' on goray bosses but I hardly found if it works. But at the same time they try to 'boot polish' their desi bosses and they end up getting promotions and what not. I think its one of the gifts that we inherited from our older generations, under British rule.
Have you noticed the same attitude in your office ? any experiences ?
well i dont mind ppl buttering (kisi kay kaam ki tareef ker dena kuch dunnah nahi), cuz the one who is being buttered is more questionable to me. I dont know why some ppl are so arrogant and full of themselves?
insaan ko insaan he rehna cheyee hai, khuda say mokabala mut keray. werna fayron jaisa haal hota hai!