If something is wrong according to Islam, its wrong…thats all there is to it.
People can choose to do what they want and ignore it, no one will hold them accountable aside from Allah swt. Its a free world; none of us are playing God by stopping someone from doing what they wish.
By all means: have a boyfriend, wear whatever you want, go wherever you want with whoever you want.
But DONT try to call it “halal” by slanting the situation. Its not “halal” and thats the bottom line. Islam is pretty clear about its guidelines and since none of us are the best of Muslims…the least we can do is leave those guidelines alone and stop trying to blur them.
Ever come across this? Where someone is obviously doing something wrong but justifying it with Islam in every way to try and feel better about themselves?