Re: Bismillah. Is this right?
I think this arab friend is making excuses which do not exist in Islam. Some people do eat haram meat in the west but generally our community is able to avoid it, nor even be tempted by it.
I would encourage you to emulate the attitude of the general community which avoids haram meat. Its actually very easy, do avoid it since Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala has forbidden it. It is Fard to avoid Haram. These two are opposites of each other
As for saying Bismillah, i know elders said an extra Bismillah before eating a piece of food that had dropped on the ground or otherwise become suspect. To protect from harmful effects of the possible contamination for health purposes. That is eating what is permissible to be eaten but with eating haram meat in this manner it is eating what is impermissible..and possibly an act of rebellion before reciting Bismillah
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[Ana`am 6:121] And do not eat that on which Allah’s name has not been mentioned, and indeed that is disobedience; and undoubtedly the devils inspire in the hearts of their friends to fight with you; and if you obey them, you are then polytheists.
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SURAH AL-ANAAM-6 Makkah. 20 Sections. 165 verses.Ayyah 119-124
Tafsir available here, page 436
http://marfat.com/DownloadBooks/Noor-ul-Arfan(Kanz-ul-Emaan)%201/WQB.pdf