You work for a Pakistani news channel dont you? ![]()
no i dont…y did u say so:bummer:…
i just cudnt digest this idea:bummer:
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Oh its alright ![]()
But you really should have added this in the end:
ar u all pretneding this???k my husband is my best frnd???is that really possibel??kya husband best frnd ho sakta hai?? ye jaannay kayliay daikhtay rahiye, Geo news.
yes limitation b aa jati hai and one more thing that frnd k saath aap her problem ,her baat chahay wo ghar ki ho,family ki ho ya kisi ki bhi ho easily discuss ker saktay ho but husband k saamnay aap ko kaafi cheezon ka parda rakhna perta hai ....for e.g.u cant tell him about the problems of ur own family(parents) etc...but frnd k saamnay u can talk about anything from A-Z...
You didn't get my point friends ke saath aap husband and apni family ke relations nahi discuss ker saktey, husbands ke saath agar aap thoray bohat discuss karein then they can support you and help you.
I can understand. I don’t know if you are married or not but if not I hope you get someone you can share your life with, inshAllah ![]()
off topic but this is a running joke in our house ![]()
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Speaking of off topic, mujhay aik sha’ir yaad agya (from Sheeda Pistol’s collection):
Faraz ki shadi mein huay itnay phool nichawar
Cameraman Faraz kay sath Geo News Peshawar :k:
yes for me - I tell everything to my hubby. I mean EVERYTHING. I do not share these info with anyone else. So for me hubby is best friend…
However, :halo:, I know I am not his best friend
he has his own set of people that he shares “all” with.
So I guess as a “couple” we are not each others best friend… it’s a one sided best friend relationship ![]()
You just made me depressed ~ I hope to get over it
so I don’t run to my one sided “best frrrand”
now ~~~~~~~~~~
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^ oh you are such a drama queen NJM ![]()
I can be your best friend sleazy smiley
i used to have a best friend...untill she got married and that was the end of it....
i am over it now..but i felt betrayed and used...and i know that we will never be the same anymore..and i dont want to...
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I think hubby/wife shd be able to replace the best friends' place.. and dats the reason that they are called better halves for each other..
is there anything in the world that is known to only half of ur body n rest half doesn't has a clue about it? there can't be anything that these two cannot share with each other..
sharing with each other brings trust among them creating a bond and respect for each other..
:)
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astagfirullah!! aaP naY intaHai gaiR munasiB auR gaiR islaMi baaT ki Hai.**
ok I think we should leave this thread alone ![]()
Hahahahaha..that is funny…well yahan jo ho ra hai wo b drama hee lag ra hai:bummer:
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I think everyone has thjeir own place. for example if there was an issue between you and your husband then there should bensoneone you can talk to for advice. Unless you tell them everything they won't b able to advise you.
and what kind of friendship is this that when u get married you replace them.
It depends if ou are both sincere or just passing times?
Tum takalluf ko bhee ikhlaas samjhatay ho Faraz
Dost hota nahiN har haath milaanay wala
Masi kiya hua???
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Jeez. Another mushy mushy thread.
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The responses are interesting ....even if this thread "is mushy". :D
I personally think that each has their own significant place in life. I dont think my fiance will replace my best friend once we get married. It hasn't happened yet so I dont see it happening. This does not mean that I do not share the world with him...and vice versa. We do. And the sharing and the trust and respect, blah blah is all there. But we both really value our own best friends and make an effort not to push them away and change the relationship. Once a significant other enters your life.... things definitely change ....... more of an effort really has to be made to maintain the level of friendship you have with your bestfriend. But if it is made and your best friend is understanding... then things remain the same :)
I may tell my fiance everything , but there are still some things that I know that my best friend will understand on a whole other level. This stems from the fact that she has known me for much longer and has seen me go through various hardships and happiness in my life that my fiance has not personally seen me go through. The bonds created from the past can't be broken... or let go off .. or replaced in my opinion. So the advice and the comfort she may gave me might be different than that of my fiance. Not to say that one is better than the other. :)
Plus if you ever need advice about something in regards to your significant other.... (ex. what should you do to surprise hubby for birthday). Then you know you can count on very dependable advice from the best friend who is already in the know about so much. She is someone else you can truly trust and depend on.
There is no such thing as a best friend any more.
no no no... yeah there IS such thing for many xxxxx out there.... i have personally gone through hell lots of time because of my husband's *xxxx *friend
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Everyone has their own place and dynamics. Spouse cant replace best friend and best friend cant replace spouse.
Nah, husband can't be your best friend. You just end up sharing most stuff as you're living together and you do need to talk about your day so you blab it all out. But there's still so much that you can't really express right on his face, like sometimes when I'm irritated at something my in-laws say or did.... or some girl stuff that I really can't share or advice I need for clothes and makeup, etc... I would say my nand is probably a better friend of mine than my hubby :p.
My best friend is still my best friend ..... since she's my sister :D I can share anything with her and still do so.