being a loner

[dewana_tera]

Re: being a loner

sadzz…i’m the biggest loner :halo:

[Pak_Brave_Heart]

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@sadzzz

(ok it can be read as being a “loser” too)

i think i suffer from love-my-own-company syndrome.. is there such a thing?

Its not as though i dont like hanging out with other people.. i do! but when it comes to shopping, travelling, driving… i dunno… i just love being on my own.. its like as though i have freedom.. some sort of independancy..

im thinking, it may haev something to do with being the eldest and always having this constant worry about my younger siblings and taking care of them.. and therefore i hang for those times where i can just be on my own… shop till i drop.. go on walks and day dream..

how do i rectify this problem?? will i grow out of it… sigh

sis, you are not alone,

the biggest loosers who have no life and spend 20 hours daily here ( like verizon and that hindu hijra matsui). are in way worst situation.

My suggestion to you is to go on vocation. I think alot of people have love-my-own-company thing cause they are just too busy these days. my suggestion is to relax go on vocations and stop worrying.

[Devil_Sown]

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sadzzz.....being around people is blown way out of porportion,99% of which are only instresting to themselves.the trick is to find those few who are on ur wavelength and hangout with them.Sometimes its better to be a loner than here some idiots talk about their lame life.

[bhoot_ka_baap]

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well sadzz i think that being the eldest one is the reason cuz i am like that too and the most cruel thing is that my younger brother will be like “bhai you are such a loser”…
but i think its becuase how a person is… part of his/her personality…i suffer from it because i have got a really tough routine and many a times i would just like to sit on my study desk with a newspaper or a magazine, which i don’t even bother opening, thinking about stuff going on in my life or about the future and stuff.

DT: man u are such a loser

[system]

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thanks Pak Brave Heart, Devil Sown and Bhooh ka baap :flower:

yeah, i think it may have to do with being the eldest.. its like a way of escaping from responsibility or i dunno… just focusing on urself.. hehe bhoot ka baap, my siblings both think im a loser.. so dont worry… we’re in the same boat

Devil Sown, yeah… lately ive limited my friends list down to like 2-3 people only… actually maybe even less than that… i wasnt ever this unsociable but i think my people-tolerance level is slowly going down..

khair… its good to know i dont have a disorder

[Mr_Fraudia]

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solitude is a fantastic place to visit, but a horrible place to make your home

[rizroseq2002]

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sadzz, i agree with u -i’m the same boat too! :sigh: