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That is weird. My husband avoids the bathroom because of me. I guess that makes me the gross one in the relationship. Well then...
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That is weird. My husband avoids the bathroom because of me. I guess that makes me the gross one in the relationship. Well then...
We tend to do a lot more in the bathroom than men to maintain our beauty such as waxing, straightening our hair, make-up, and etc. If you don't really pick up the mess of your loose hair from the floor or clean the restroom after using it, then anybody can feel disgusted. I had some guests over for a month and they made my bathroom really messy with wadu and loose hair but I had to clean up after them since they were guests. I did not give them any tantrum.
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^that is not what I meant.
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And PCG everyone is different u can only cross that bridge when u come to it. Depends on how u use the bathroom and how he does. And taking into account what u hate and what he hates u have to come to a happy medium. Have u always had ur own bathroom? Never shared with a roommate or sibling? It's the same compromise, u keep reminding them not to do it a certain way and then one magic day in the future u don't have to do remind them anymore, they're trained for life.
I bet guys get pissed off about seeing long hair on the bathroom floor after ur done combing in there, I don't hear any of them complaining. And these are all the girls who claim how everyone else makes such a mess and they don't. A couple of my friends and I went to university together, we lived close to each other and stayed over a lot. I had to practically show them how to pick their hair off the bathroom floor (both claimed it was the other person's hair, although I had proof in my bathroom that they both made a mess) . They never tried to keep their fallen hair going down the drain while showering so guess what, their bathtub was blocked every other week and they had to pour draino down it all the time. And how did they not learn these life skills, one had her own bathroom all her life (and a maid) and one shared it with like 20 siblings but had a houseboy doing the cleaning and probably draino-ing (and also with so many ppl sharing u wouldn't know who to blame for the mess). So I'd rather share my bathroom with my brother (who my mom had taught the same cleanliness) than my female friends. Basically everyone's different and u have to hope ur mil did a good job.
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^that is not what I meant.
hmmmmmm toilet use? lol hahaha..
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I don't have to worry about these things... I guess it just depends on the couple how they have set the rules. In most cases, women are accountable for keeping the house clean. If both the husband and wife are working then I am sure they are both responsible for their own mess... I just don't have to deal with this issue so I can't answer.
U mean u don't have to deal with it because ur not married yet or u already know the ins and outs of his bathroom?
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hmmmmmm toilet use? lol hahaha..
I think Theorist was being sarcastic
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I'm not talking about hair I'm talking about poop rules.
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U mean u don't have to deal with it because ur not married yet or u already know the ins and outs of his bathroom?
We get maids to do the bathroom cleaning weekly... My soon-to-be hubby doesn't want me to be worried about cleaning ;) ... It is all covered. However, if the situation requires me to clean, I'd be OK with cleaning his mess. I actually enjoy cleaning more than cooking...
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How r u going to make someone poop a different way. As long as u don't get to see any of it it should be fine. I thought that was a given.
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Pooping is natural girl!!! Nobody has control over it where you schedule the time. Were you thinking women poop smells like roses? 
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Flush often (mercy flushes), and light a match or 10, depending on length of poop. Remember methane is a gas, and lighting a match will burn it off. And if there is still a smell use air freshener/ventilation etc. If there is still a problem, please take hasban to gastro ;)
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On topic: I beg to differ with the OP that “All guys smell so let’s be real.” Not true!
Nice to see you’re back Theorist!
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We get maids to do the bathroom cleaning weekly... My soon-to-be hubby doesn't want me to be worried about cleaning ;) ... It is all covered. However, if the situation requires me to clean, I'd be OK with cleaning his mess. I actually enjoy cleaning more than cooking...
Weekly u mean once a week? If u have a partner who makes a mess and u don't then even if u have someone cleaning it daily it could be irritating. For example, leaving sprinkles on the toilet seat, leaving a wet floor (both of which I hate). So even if someones comes in to clean ur bathroom everyday, if the other person doesn't change that somebody's gonna get a hurt real bad.
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Haven't you heard the myth that some men thinks women never poop because they are just super gorgeous and wow and soft and angelic and smells so awesome that something dirty is not expected from them?
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What??? Women poop??? I thought it was all rainbows and unicorns from that end. 
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What r u feeding him that makes him stink? Maybe ease up on the protein and junk food and up the fruits and veggies.
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Weekly u mean once a week? If u have a partner who makes a mess and u don't then even if u have someone cleaning it daily it could be irritating. For example, leaving sprinkles on the toilet seat, leaving a wet floor (both of which I hate). So even if someones comes in to clean ur bathroom everyday, if the other person doesn't change that somebody's gonna get a hurt real bad.
I don't think he'd want me to touch his stuff so he better clean up the mess himself :p .. However, women are supposed to be the care taker of the house anyway... So I am not going to mind these little things that you have mentioned since it takes only 5 min to get them right.
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Yeh when ur about to pee ur pants and u have to do a dance and wipe the sprinkles first, I think you'll change ur mind, sometimes u don't have 5 min :). The best way to go is train train train.
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And by sprinkles I mean water sprinkles, from the Muslim shower, or lota, whatever, left on the seat. Which ppl do all the time in pak! Because they never have toilet paper in there, or sometimes even a dustbin! I mean where do they throw trash. I've had that happen so many times! And yes I know all the ppl in pak are not like that and yes all GS ppl have toilet paper and a dustbin in their bathroom and know how to use, but what's up with all the other ppl! They sit on the water sprinkles and don't mind. How can u do that, someone plz help me understand this.