Re: bad mama
Okay, Im not a mom yet so Im not speaking from experience.
However, it seems to me as if MO3, you have such a sweet family. Your boys love each other and no one should make you feel bad about that. Isnt that the point of having a family? To love, protect, care and be there when we need each other unconditionally?
In my home, my parents have created a strong family unit which has kept us together over the years. When the time came to be independant, my parents had a hard time accepting it but they eventually gave in. I can now see how most of my decisions were impacted by how I was brought up. Not all were good, of course. But for the most part, I stayed out of trouble because of the closeness we had amongst us. I thought twice before I did anything.
Those are my two cents. :-)