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Oh yeah another thing… what about the girls’ father? the babies’ fathers? Are any of these men taking responsibility for what htey sired?

Damn babies… only a 12 year old would name her kid T-jay :rolleyes:

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you know lady daisy i wish you wouldnt promote your daughters acheivements in this way…encourage them to participate more in their education or atleast run a marathon :rolleyes:

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lol Missy, Im proud of them.... why shouldnt I be, they'll get the procreation part of their lives out of the way early and hopefully be grandmothers when they are 24/26/28 and then they can retire.
they can learn their abc after that...

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and why shouldnt you be proud...if i had grandkids named lita and t-jay id be opening up threads too!

whatever happeded to the name jordon? is that not chav enough for you?

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i wanted the names , chardonnay, mercedes and and something exotic like kylie but the girls said they arent in fashion anymore, jordan... well she didnt get through on Eurovision so that name was discounted

T-J was so called becalled because they where the only letters of the alphbet that his ma knew before she left and she couldnt spell anything else.

Ok thats enough of me being mean..

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I say this is social darwinism. People this dumb should be phased out of society as quickly as possible...

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serious note

HOW DO YOU STOP YOUR KIDS DOING THINGS YOU DONT WANT THEM TO DO?

talk to them, explain to them , beat them into submission? When do you you pass on the responsibility to the teachers?

This is a big problem in some parts of london and outer areas...I talked to head teachers who feel its easier for them to work in schools with a larger propertion of kids from the Indian sub continent and places liek china, because they know that the parents WILL be on the teachers side if the student misbehaves, and in anycase these kids are less likely to be disruptive or deviant.

Other parents take their kids to school expecting them to not only learn the national curriculum but also moral behaviour and then blame the education system for any failings.

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Is this the end of the world? No? Then, let’s move on.

The girls made an error of judgment (they are so young, so it is expected). The school should give out free birth control for those who are active.

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Parents have to be start being parents, mothers have to be mothers and fathers have to be fathers.

These so-called parents are trying very hard to be their best friends than parents. In most of the Desi or Pakistani families, parents don’t beat their kids and they turn out normal. No smoke, drugs, drinking and pregnancy because they behave like parents.

The question should be how someone tell a parent that had a child when she was 12-17 to be a parent? The cycle needs to be stopped immediatly rather than contained.

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Ms Daisy vaisy, the subject line reminded me of Matchbox 20's

*
Baby, baby, baby when all your love is gone
Who will save me from all I'm up against out in this world
And maybe, maybe, maybe
You'll find something that's enough to keep you
But if the bright lights don't receive you
You should turn yourself around and come on home
*

song. Now I've to go home to listen to it. See what have you done? Made me take the 1/2 day off and be unproductive. Please be more savvy in the future in picking subject lines for things you'd like to share with us. Thank you.

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^^ Amen

I tell my kids all the time, I will never, ever be your best friend, I'm your mother.

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Mom!

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Minah...Dont tell that to your hubby.

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Mother could not have forced and stopped them from doing what they did because she was always going to be blamed by social security services and what not in that case. Sometimes 'conservative' and 'protective' parents can help eh?

Poor sex education? yeah right. That just underlines the mess the world is in (regarding moral, ethical and social values). Confused parents, confused kids. And I m not talking about just american or european societies.

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Madhanee - I tell him all the time, I will never, ever be your best friend, I am your wife :D

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^^ I tell mama all the time "the only best friend I have is you my love".

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^^ awwww - she must be reading your posts then, good luck getting out of the garbage bin

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I agree with you that the mother should teach her daughters about havin save sex ect. But come on the girls can lie like i go to my friends house or go to the movie’s,
but actually they going see their bf. What i wanna say is that the mom can’t look after them if they are at school or somewhere else? Maybe she have also a job or something.

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wat’s all the fuss about? 5, 10, 15 years later they would have eventually got a kid anyway. It’s better that it happened soon, so they can enjoy their kid longer :k:

besides, there are many cultures, now and in history, where kid-moms was daily practice

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its what kind of people these kids become that seems to be the problem....