Babies

[Exoduss]

@""akaprincess""

should i give up on wanting them?

growing up as an only child, sucks. I have always wanted a big family of my own. Clearly that isnt happening.

everyone always says “whatever happens, happens for the best. Ive never been a believer in that. But lets say its true.

so, does that mean its good im childless? Despite being married in the past and all, i have never been been pregnant let alone gave birth.

is this for the best? Cuz maybe if i have kids, i would be a bad mother? That my kids would turn out to be horrible? Cuz we certainly dont need more badly raised kids.

should i crush that dream and let it go? Cuz technically, it would be for the best?

Yes. Please?

[Cashmere]

@""LP""

Why do you want to have kids? Have you thought about the reason you want kids?

If you don’t have a single kid then there’s no 'only child growing up alone’.

This is a weird comment LP. Wanting to reproduce and reproduction in general is a highly important characteristic of living organisms. It is humam nature. Even if there was no logic to this, your question is unwarranted imho.

[Cashmere]

@""navzzz""

You do not raise children to expect they will care for you, or give you much importance in your life. They have already given enough joy and pleasure by giving you an opportunity to enjoy and cherish their presence in your life, get comfort from seeing them grow up and become independent. Childrem have no obligations to look after their parents, good on them if they do. This is circle of life and will continue regardless.

Yes, yes. We should not expect any empathy from creatures we popped into existence out of our bodies and prioritized them over ourselves for 20 something years. No obligations, yes.

[LP]

@""Cashmere""

This is a weird comment LP. Wanting to reproduce and reproduction in general is a highly important characteristic of living organisms. It is humam nature. Even if there was no logic to this, your question is unwarranted imho.

Why weird? Finding out why you want something isn’t weird or wrong

[SleekDesign]

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