I think most of you guys are being overly critical, I saw all three vids and loved each one! No couple is the same, not everyone can express their emotions with unique words, sometimes you may use generic words and phrases because there's no better way of saying them, they're cliche and generic for a reason- it;s what everyone wants in a partner- it's not the words that make it unique but finding the person that matches you- that is what's special and unique!!
The camera work in all three were fab different styles all trying to capture the elegance and grandeur of the wedding. Although I ranted my favourite one is of the bride with the white wedding dress simply because she was the most relaxed, I can imagine with videos and cameras glaring in your face you're not the most natural- you might pose or act stiff but hey not everyone is made for TV:P lol
On the OP video, i didnt find it cheesy, i thought it was rather sweet, but i personally would have kept the letter private. The choice of music was a bit odd too but other than that, sweet :)
The first video was OTT in my opinion...like, 'get a room'. I just think that kinda stuff should be private rather than displayin it in the wedding video to show everyone, including strangers.