Aunty

[Spock]

@PyariCgudia

You can saccrifice for your family and not be backward-minded the way a lot of the aunties are, which gives them their negative image. You can get out there and do something other than changing diapers that makes you happy, you can get a job that makes you happy, you can have hobbies that are of substance that make you happy, you can avoid gossip and avoid conniving against other people, you can avoid sabotaging other marriages and families, you can avoid the typical dekha dekhi that desi aunties get themselves caught up in, you can raise your kids with good values and with discipline as oppose to letting them run around like crazy at a dawat.

That sort of thing.

I really think you need to look beyond the circle of people you always stumble and base your generalizations on.