Most of the North American Pakistani Community or the one in the UK try to distance themselves from the Pakistani culture and ways ( fobby ) behaviour and try to assimilate in to the environment. They do not want to be associated with anything from Pakistan. Not all but most, like to speak English and do not even know Urdu and like to dress up in the western attire.
Is it that we are ashamed, perhaps disappointed, in our Pakistani culture?
Not sure what you're trying to say, mate. Some of us were born in Western countries and spent all of our lives here. Pakistan is an important connection but are you expecting everyone to be rocking shalwar kamizes and speaking with a Pakistani accent, just to remain 'authentic'
On a side note, I do not appreciate the visual of the crotch hugging pants/jeans that another member mentioned - it's too lewd.