Re: Arguments between husband wife?
i think, if the basis of a married couple's relationship is mutual trust, accord, understanding and respect, then there are no reasons for being argumentative. how ever, if and when arguments take place, first off, keep all miscommunication or no communication out of your relationship.
second, make sure that you can articulate your reasons for being upset and your spouse gets to share her/his reasons for arguments out of the way.
then, make sure that
you are able to allow for a sense of affirmation and agreement on the common thoughts and ideas of how to compensate for a cause for the fight that took place.
make a promise to each other, in all good faith that you will A V O I D and prevent such a cause from taking a toll on your relationship and moods ever again. and even disagree respectfully. finally, no yelling, no weeping, no guilt trips and no curse words.
end the argumentative arbitration with a smile :>