Re: Are women allowed to visit graves?
Interesting. Over here, women have attended Muslim funerals, myself included, although we are asked to stand far back during the actual burial. Afterwards, we have gone to the graveyards and have seen other women there too, paying their respects to passed away relatives. Obviously, you are supposed to dress properly and not go if you are menstruating.
One myth I have heard as to why women should not go to graveyards is because the dead can see women naked. 