hey teelo, normally when u say something like "my mum has it" or "my grandma has it", in the west, people will find it a bit offensive in the exact same way as pf just said in this last post. whereas in pakistan, it may be considered a compliment, in the west, USUALLY it isnt.
hence the confusion most likely. my 2 cents....
Ok, i'll keep that in mind :S
But to be honest i live in Canada and have lived in U.k as well but i never came across any weird people ever from any race and ethnicity.