An average Guppan

NomiCA · April 24, 2011, 2:04pm

Re: An average Guppan

OK ashi…i digged up…and this one sums it up almost perfectly …

I must say I am confused by the responses. Half one to get me married off like some chick and the rest wish to do me in a la The Departed.

My concern is not for those who post to vent. By all means vent. My dislike is directed at those who offer advice who aren’t qualified to do so. There is a very basic fundamental truth to giving advice. You say and offer ideas which are best of the people involved in the situation. The one asking for the advice based on what the information they offer. On GS that rarely happens. People take their own view points and make assumptions on both the person and their view point and giver very very bad advice half the time. Divorce is always offered as the first solution not the last. One view point is taken as paramount and supreme which can not be questioned and leading to conclusions which impact different lives negatively. I have yet to see any thread where women in general did not offer positive advice in life 1. The worst aspect of all of this is that women who do give the negative advice are the first who won’t implement it themselves.

The one that just annoyed the **** out of me was this thread:

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/456248-talakyafta-larka.html?daysprune=30

The double standards are appalling. But its a very simple symptom of this website. Anything questioning the actions of the female gender is seen as a negative, backwards and fill in other words here. If its a guy doing something wrong, its obviously true and whats worse its all his parents fault.