American unmarried couples!

[Mehnaz]

Re: American unmarried couples!

@minah_pa

Zalim, you poor misquided man, you would be surprised exactly how many men here, especially married have a live-in girlfriend while their wife is back at home in Pakistan or even without being married. They live with a girl here, promise marriage, then get engaged in Pakistan, fly back, get married, come back, and either marry here or just continue to string them along. Nearly every guy without his wife here has a girl and some with her here as well.

Never mind all the ones that marry here for the green card and still have a wife in Pakistan.

I do know of one Paki guy who married the girl he was living with here, brought his Paki wife back here, and all three live together. He calls his gori wife his right hand. They all have five kids and it seems to work out, the Paki wife and the American wife get along and are best friends. But that is the only one I know about that was able to make this work.

Don’t think that Pakistani just because they are Muslim don’t do this.

Minah, great point, but he’s talking about unmarried, common-law relationships.

I know what you mean though, plenty of married south asian men pose as singles while their wives are back home. Sad and pathetic indeed.