Anybody can be offensive without being abusive case in point is this post of yours where you are calling all the posters in the thread show offs and materialistic who are fondly discussing their shopping habits. On top of that you are trying to prove that you are holier than they are by writing about your down to earth shoping habits.
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/all-views/292859-girly-thread-post5976282.html#post5976282