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there is so much more in life than marriage…be happy, smile allways and enjoy your freedom, inshallah you’ll meet a nice, decent guy one day 
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thanks noor!!! made my day :muaaaaaaaaah!:
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Lets make a pact, if neither of us r married in 10 years, then we can get married 
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u’d want him looking at other women?
You really must be strong..
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Cressi, it's very very very very hard to finda man who will not look at any woman other than his bivi period. So many women have, realistically, given up on demanding that and instead demand that he be respectful to them and not stare/ogle right in front of htem.
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No shweet but I think that ‘no farting’ part would be difficult. I mean, I think
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sara-haan atleast i know ONE person that will approve of such a marriage...lajawab
crescent-sara is right. its crazy to think a man wont stare at other women. but the least they can do is not do it when biwi/gf is around.
TNWB: i dont care.....its either no farts or no blanket sharing!!!
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Last week I was at my sister’s house. she was trying to give me ‘Eidi’ which I refused to take. I said, “What do you think Im a baby 
” And she was like, “Okay then make me a khala then I’ll give Eidi to those kids instead of you.” And I was like, “Mujhay koi shoq nahi kisi ko khala bananay ka 
”
So, then my sister’s MIL said, “Yeah, stay the way you are. This is an interesting life. Now if you had a hubby, he would have called you a 100 times to ask when you’re coming home.” (Cz it was late at night I left her house). She said, “Enjoy your freedom now that you have it. Once married, unless you find a real good man, you’ll lose it.”
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Its not THAT hard, people aren’t looking in the right places. There are enough men and women who will devote attention only the their partners, however they’re just being overlooked because of certain "norms’’ that have been absorbed from society. thas all.
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TNWB- my sleeveless wearing feature of hubby also implies added freedom for wife....if HE can go on a biz trip to europe...I will be going trekking on my own too, not confined to giong with 10 other family auntie uncles, chai thermos and sandwiches... :hoon!:
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Cressi you're right :) there are those who will focus on their partner and never stray. But we're talking about staring, not cheating (i dont' consider staring only to be cheating, just very rude and disrespectful). I dunno... it's all so complicated :(
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shweet, none of your other demands are difficult to meet but only the one which I mentioned 
Again, this is just my opnion. I may be wrong.
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Yeah, but that just gives you the notion that other women/men are more attractive then your partner.
how does that make you feel 
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crescent, it’s not all about look, who cares about your look, a real good wife/hubby should love you for your heart, soul, morality and intellect, not for your look:blush:
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it may be better to stay single that marry a not “real good man”
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cause they are too few real good men to satisfy all the real good women around:D
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:rocketup: 
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ufff now just wait and watch…a guy will come up and say THIS IS WHY WE ARE ALLOWED FOUR…