There has been no shred of evidence presented yet that the Americans are involved in bombing masjids, schools and markets if anything these increased with the Lal Masjid debacle.
The root cause of instability in the Muslim countries is not the US but the Muslims themselves. I cannot comment on any other Muslim country but in pakistan 99% live very far away from Islam and it is secondary in their lives over making money. Until you start living in a decent and honest way then complain.
You should point figures at your political and military leaders too.