Aggressive Men

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I say we are twins :lifey:
just from different mothers.

brotha from another motha ! :hehe:

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lolzzzzzzzz exactly

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Sheyn - "aggressive" is as general as "attractive" if you know what I mean. There can be quite a few interpretations and perceptions of the word.

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From S.U

''You're right - aggression is unhealthy outside the bedroom.''

Im sorry Straight.Up, im not the type who has experiecned the bedroom yet.

Jaanwar ,ur right its in the interpretation and it seems that somewhere down the line aggressive became synonymous with being "kool" and attractive !

I think its the "Bad Boy " attitude that some women find appealing that made aggression seem like a good thing !

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Hey Jaanwarr, i aint no shrukh khan waanbe ok.

I make my own laws, my own rules, dont follow anybodies cribble.

I am extrmly offended at you reptdly accusing me of making holywood stories abut my personal life.

Do u want me to start ranting on abut her again?

Im just trying to get over it and divert my mind with guppes here.

Dude, I dont mean to poke into your personal matters, but you had a girlfriend who had 3 other boyfriends, yet you didn't do her? and you say you are aggressive! Did you practice kung fu on her or something?

That is precious, very precious.

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^ Oops, just read amir’s other thread, this is going to get some heat :hehe:

There is a very clear line between 'taking initiative' and 'taking charge' positively, and being a prick. That line, I believe, defines whether the guy is attractive or a turn-off.

Dang. The man put me in my place in one post. How embarassing :o

Yea I remember you saying that you have a good heart and you need a girl’s attention, and if any GS girls were up for it. I feel you man! :k:

:hehe: you asked for it girl.

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Hey here my 50 cents to this thread.

I know for a fact a female who used to rlly get turned on by her b.f whenever he shouted or got angry at her.

Weird though.

And Why do People open irrational threads like these any-way.

Which gal honestly wants a man would beat her up treat her like s**t everyday.

I thut people on gupshup were meant to be smart.

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Some of you are confusing aggression with physical abuse.

Lassie bashers are wankers, nowt but wankers. That isnt aggression. Its wankerism.

Oh God .. Is that what you meant by aggression? :smack:

Strike two. AP, teach us to open more rational threads like the ones you open :D Not all of us have crazy drama going on in our lives so that's why we open irrational threads. Now about women wanting men to beat them up - and liking it, sounds like absolute BS to me. No women said she likes an abusive man, may be you should broaden your vocabulary and come to the understanding that aggression has more than one meaning. Also, I appreciate your concern about women who like abusive men, it is very considerate of you.

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Women getting turned on by abusive men is a very advanced form of BDSM and I believe it should be an exception :hmmm:

For this thread, lets stick with the common aggressive, take-charge attitude.

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/\ Yes, but the fine line between that kind of aggression and abuse, is very crossable. On that note, most women would like it till it is in the first phase, and when it transcends into the second, they start complaining.

Shouldn't the women be CLEAR about what they exactly want?