after my wedding, i stayed about a month with my inlaws, they didnt let me do anything.
but 1 and half year later when i went to pak to visit them, i had to cook for lunch and dinner, do dishes and my MIL expected me to do ironing as well, not just mine but whole familys.
i used to scrub their dirty kitchen till my hand were sore.
i hated dirty kitchen and they was full of evey possible junk piece, old dishes, broken glass and dishes.
my 3 SIL used to order food and go to their room or just join us at dinning table.
and i rarely cooked at my parents house and i was in kitchen for a while, my dad used to help me ineverything and even cooked on my behalf.