Its about identity, not culture.
Also, this is about ‘‘Desi’’ not about religion - nobody said ABC Muslims - the term holds true for both muslims and non-muslims.
That’s actually true. I have seen girls born and raised in UK in my family making fun of FOBs…I was made fun of my accent when I was a newbie. So yeah it’s a sad reality. But hey…it’s considered wajib ul qatal to do gustakhi in ABCDs and BBCDs’ shaan.
Personally speaking…I don’t find such terms offensive. Because I have no insecurities. Also, not all people fit the criteria…there are so many different kinds among them.
Okay. If we were living in a foreign land and trying to be like the natives there I could have seen your point. But American Borns don’t have to assimilate. Apnay mulk mein Kya confusion? Confusion to anay walon ko hogi.
We have a different culture in the States. It’s a hybrid culture and it works well I think.
