So where are all the momma's in da house now? You question the conversational ability of a SAHM and you get a 10 page thread rife with accusations. You trash an unmaried girl and people nod and tsk tsk and agree?
For the ladies standing up for the single ladies, thank you. I wish more women were sensible like yourself.
Women are more than a pile of hormones. Let's start treating them like normal human beings. I don't see these ttypes of topics about awara 30 year old men.
So where are all the momma's in da house now? You question the conversational ability of a SAHM and you get a 10 page thread rife with accusations. You trash an unmaried girl and people nod and tsk tsk and agree?
For the ladies standing up for the single ladies, thank you. I wish more women were sensible like yourself.
Women are more than a pile of hormones. Let's start treating them like normal human beings. I don't see these ttypes of topics about awara 30 year old men./QUOTE]
Thank You, well said. Biology is not destiny people. Just because women can have kids does not mean they have too. It also does not mean that they will end up being crazy psycho spinsters if they choose not to have children. Respect people's choices. To have or not to have children should be a choice.
It is not a big deal. I think married women at times underestimate single women and single women at times underestimate married ones...or both groups tend to make generalizations. Anyway, I think we should all try move away from these generalizations and try to find a meaning in our lives...no matter we are sahm's, married and working, single and at home, or single and working.
Also, we should keep in mind that no matter what group we belong, our unique roles play an essential part in the society.
Everyone agrees that this thread is garbage, why bother answering some dumb person who starts such idiotic threads… on the other hand when parhee likhee women like you start such weird threads, everyone has to pitch in… consider it a compliment PCG
I have seen nice and sophisticated girls turned into jahil, primitive creatures after getting married. Not every woman wants to get married and have kids but unfortunately even today motherhood is considered as the “completion” of being a woman. Total rubbish!!!
the reason i did not bother replying to this pointless thread was because the OP is male and therefore any generalizations he makes about married orr unmarried women are based on stupid assumptions. everybody knows that. not just because he is a guy...but what kinda guy spends his time wondering about and analyzing women who got married or had kids vs. women who didnt? its strange and creepy.
if, lets say, the OP was a mother of 4 and married and started bashing all the single women she's ever met in her life i'd totally jump in n stop her because as women we owe each other a bit of compassion and understanding. we need to stick up for each other, whether married or unmarried, so that we can grow stronger together and learn to value ourselves regardless of what choices or opportunities we had in life. thats all :)
^No way. When I read the post, I was like whoaaa... are you for real mister? Some dumbass (excuse my language) making stupid generalizations.
I dont think i am making any dumb generalizations. i have seen it happen to so many women. some of them when they are past their primes and can not get any attention any more start making up stories to make themselves feel that they have not lost their magical touch, or that they are just single by choice or whatever. and then when someone talks to them about children and all, they get al defensive and crazy.
as in this case you became so personal that you had to actually curse me even though these comments were not directed at you. I am assuming you are over thirty and still single without children. otherwise, why would you make such comments??
I have seen nice and sophisticated girls turned into jahil, primitive creatures after getting married. Not every woman wants to get married and have kids but unfortunately even today motherhood is considered as the “completion” of being a woman. Total rubbish!!!
maybe they dont want to get married and have kids but at the end of the day, most of those that made that choice would regret that. exceptions are always there of course.
its probably inherent in females that they are family oriented. they start making their "homes" when they are playing. i have seen my little nieces talking about their dolls as if an adult woman talks about her children. more often than not you will hear from women of all ages that they have dreamt of getting married and having children for as long as they can remember.
and then i have seen women who did not get married and dont have families or children. most of the times i have seen them imbalanced, usually very "crazy" and not in a good way.
based on my experiences i think that women who remain single and do not have children, it is their greatest regret in life that they dont have any family or children.
do you think I am justified in thinking like that?
Did you consider that perhaps this is because many cultures and societies do not offer women an alternative lifestyle, if they choose (or cannot) marry and have children. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and a lack of direction/purpose.
What we need to move toward is a society that allows for a variety of successful life paths for both men and women -- not just in name only.
And some families choose not to have kids. I don't want kids, they hate me. And many ppl also regret getting married and having kids bc they can't provide for them...so what's your point?
