Re: a weird situation
Balongri,
In my experience, there is always an opportunity to broach sensitive subjects once emotions have cooled down.
Once you have followed my steps and are ready to open communication with that person, here how I’d re-start the topic.
"Hey xyz,
I know we both lost our temper last time and in the heat of the moment, some things were said that weren’t meant.
This is very important to me, and I’d like to discuss it with you in a calm manner. I’d like you to hear me out …"
Naturally, the key is that you have rehearsed all tihs beforehand and deliver it in a very calm manner. If you don’t like what they have to say, stay calm. If you feel that communication is not going in the direction you want, end it by saying something like, “thanks for sharing your thoughts. Let me think about it some more.” And, leave. Continue agian, when you are comfortable.
Remember to breathe as it will calm your nerves.
Good luck. 